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Motherhood Is Leadership.

Research, commentary, and media resources from Chief of Mom Life — making the leadership happening across modern motherhood visible through original research, thought leadership, and practical application.

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abbypoklar@chiefofmomlife.com

New Research · September 2026

What 247 Moms Told Us About Leading Mom Life

Phase One of the Mom Life Leadership Survey examines mental load, clarity, systems, identity, intentionality, and the largely invisible leadership required to make family life work.

81%
of Moms say they mostly keep track of household details.
12.6%
describe their Mom Life as mostly intentional; 43.3% say some things feel intentional, but many days still feel reactive.
35.9% v 4.4%
Moms with strong household systems were substantially more likely to describe Mom Life as mostly intentional. Clarity showed the same pattern.
The surprise
Strong systems did not reduce ownership of the mental load: 78.1% of Moms with strong systems still mostly carry it, versus 82.0% with fewer systems. Systems change how a household runs, not who is responsible for running it.
"We often talk about Mom Life as a collection of tasks — meals, schedules, appointments, activities, laundry. But underneath all of that is leadership."Abby Poklar, Founder & Editor-in-Chief
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A resource for stories about modern motherhood and leadership.

Abby Poklar, Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Chief of Mom Life, is available for interviews, podcasts, panels, and commentary.

  • Motherhood as leadership
  • Mental load and invisible cognitive work
  • Systems, routines, and the mental load at home
  • Working motherhood and leadership
  • Clarity, identity, and intentionality
  • The difference between participation and ownership
  • How Mom Life leadership changes as children grow
  • What employers, schools, and organizations can learn from Moms
Abby Poklar, Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Chief of Mom Life
Abby Poklar
Founder & Editor-in-Chief

A senior organizational leader whose work spans strategy, leadership, organizational performance, and culture. She founded Chief of Mom Life to bring a leadership lens to the complexity of modern motherhood.

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The Mom Life Leadership Survey

An ongoing study of how Moms actually lead their lives.

Original research building a data-driven picture of the mental load, the decisions no one sees, and what helps make that leadership more sustainable.

Phase One
247 Moms
Next
500–1,000 Moms

Research areas: mental load · clarity · systems · identity · intentionality · family direction · leadership across seasons

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Press releases

Announcements.

September 7, 2026
New Research From Chief of Mom Life Makes the Leadership of Modern Motherhood Visible
In the press

Coverage.

Stroll Madison Park September 2026
Building Community in Madison Park

Co-founder Jessica Sahney on building a community of Moms around the belief that motherhood is leadership.

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NBC4 · The Mother Load July 13, 2026
Motherhood Is Leadership

Abby Poklar joins NBC4 anchor Jennifer Bullock to discuss the leadership happening every day across Mom Life.

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About Chief of Mom Life

A leadership practice for modern motherhood.

Chief of Mom Life is built on a simple premise: Motherhood Is Leadership. Every day, Moms navigate competing priorities, allocate limited resources, resolve conflict, anticipate needs before they become crises, and guide the development of human beings. If these responsibilities existed inside a company, we would call it leadership without hesitation.

Chief of Mom Life exists to close that gap — a leadership framework, original research, and community built on the belief that the complexity of Mom Life is not a personal failing, but the reality of leading one of the most demanding roles in modern life.

Read the founding essay: Motherhood Is Leadership →
Abby Poklar
Abby Poklar
Founder & Editor-in-Chief

A Chief of Staff and senior executive at a leading educational nonprofit, whose career centers on clarity amid complexity. She founded Chief of Mom Life to bring a leadership lens to modern motherhood.

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Jessica Sahney
Jessica Sahney
Co-Founder, COO & CPO

An MIT-educated systems engineer with an MBA and fifteen years at a leading tech company, designing systems that produce reliable outcomes at scale. She leads product, operations, and the app.

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