About Chief of Mom Life
Chief of Mom Life is a leadership framework and community for modern motherhood — built for Moms who are ready to lead their lives with clarity, confidence, and structure.
Motherhood is Leadership.
Modern Moms manage complex lives filled with decisions, responsibilities, and competing priorities. Without structure, even meaningful work and strong families can begin to feel reactive and overwhelming.
Chief of Mom Life exists to help Moms lead their lives with clarity, confidence, and structure.
Chief of Mom Life began with a shared realization between two sisters on very different paths, living similarly complex lives.
Abby and Jessica share a deep commitment to meaningful work and strong families, even as their lives took very different forms. They built lives that looked nothing alike, living across the country from one another with different careers and interests. Despite the distance, they stayed connected, regularly sharing systems, ideas, and practical ways to make life work better.
Over time, those conversations revealed something important: the leadership principles that worked in their professional lives made a meaningful difference when applied at home.
Our Origin
Our Team
As a Chief of Staff and senior executive at one of the country's leading educational nonprofits, Abby built her career around clarity amid complexity — protecting priorities, anticipating change, and designing systems that hold under pressure. She earned her Master's degree while working full time, shaping her understanding of leadership forged in real life, not ideal conditions.
Over time, she realized those same leadership demands existed at home.
Motherhood surfaced familiar friction: endless decisions, competing demands, and urgency crowding out intention. When Abby applied the tools she used professionally to Mom Life, everything shifted. Structure reduced mental load. Mechanisms created clarity. What mattered most stayed protected.
Her work helps Moms lead their lives with clarity, confidence, and structure — grounded in the belief that intention must be designed for, not hoped for.
Founder, Editor-In-Chief
An MIT-educated systems engineer with an MBA, Jessica spent 15 years at a leading tech company, most recently as a Director focused on data center infrastructure planning and operational efficiency. She built her career designing systems that produce reliable outcomes at scale — across the country and around the world.
There came a point where Mom Life felt like swimming upstream. She began intentionally rebuilding her life through small, sustainable changes — starting with a five-minute daily ritual supported by an accountability partner. Those changes compounded. Life became more intentional without becoming rigid. Through this, Jessica developed a commitment to self-leadership and real human connection.
Her work helps Moms build the clarity, confidence, and structure to lead their lives with intention — without adding pressure. She believes community is not a bonus. It is what makes the rhythm last.
Co-Founder, Chief Operating & Product OfficerThough Abby and Jessica are different in background and approach, they are aligned in what matters most: meaningful work, strong families, and leadership that supports life rather than competes with it.
Again and again, they found themselves sharing frameworks and small adjustments that made daily life easier. Over time, it became clear this was more than personal problem-solving—it was a shared passion.
Chief of Mom Life is a leadership framework and operating system for modern motherhood. It supports Moms who want to lead their lives with clarity, confidence, and intention.
Meaningful change does not come from doing more. It comes from leading differently—with clarity, confidence, and structure.
Together.